The Soul of Sex by Thomas Moore:
“We may need to expand our sexuality rather than contract it. I mean, we could more explicitly be erotic people, people interested in sexual matters, giving life a sheen of eroticism rather than covering over deep sexual interests with a puritan veneer. We could eroticize public life rather than make it appear too chaste. More thoughtful, artistically interesting sexual imagery might help. But the eroticism could be more subtle: signs of comfort, joy, pleasure and gratification at work and at home, in public life and in private.”